I feel like after you have a baby there is this 6-9 month period of time where you just sort of drop off the face of the Earth. You focus on your kids, your house, your husband's job. Maybe it's shorter or longer for some, but for me I feel like it takes me awhile to get back into a groove of feeling good and remembering to focus on myself.
Sometimes it's just the little things that make me happy.
*Committing to getting back into a workout routine.
*A fresh coat of nail polish.
*A day off where I can shop and clean and just do what I want with no one else around.
*A hair cut and color and a wax of the old hairy caterpillars above my eyes.
*A trip to the grocery store sans kids where I can compare the labels of two similar sauces of spaghetti for 20 minutes if I want.
*Cuddling under a blanket with a good book or the most current episode of RHOBH.
I love my boys and I love planning things for them and for my family. I love cuddling with them every night before bed. I love making dinner and getting them ready for the next day.
But I love me, too. I want to take care of everything in my life and what better way to stay focused on my family, when they've got a happy and healthy Mama, right?
So take an hour or a day and make yourself happy for once. Your family will thank you!